What it Took to Be Free

What It Took to Be Free
By MARSHA HERBERT
I wanted my daughter to be free.
And I wanted myself to be free too.
That thought stayed with me for a long time, long before I fully understood what it would take to get there.
Learning to Take Care of Myself Early
I came to Canada from Jamaica when I was 12, with my twin sister. We left our mom to live with our dad.
But things didn’t unfold the way we expected. One day, he told us we were moving to a smaller home. Then suddenly, he left. No warning. No conversation. Just gone.
By the time I was 16, I had made a decision. I left home. My sister followed.
I told her, you finish school—I’ll take care of us. So I did. I got an apartment. I worked full-time at a buffet restaurant. I figured it out as I went.



